are we out of order?

[liverLadyLass]

kids were supposed to stay out Friday night,
grandparents phone and say there not up to it,
that was fine even tho they had only phoned us half an hour before they were supposed to get them,
then we find out that they have taken there other grandchild, and my ds who's eight is very upset,, as are we,
if the grand mother is unfit to take one set of due to her nerves!!! surly the same goes for the other?
or are we completely in the wrong here?

Tbh op i don't think it's getting too complicated I think you're not getting the responses you hoped for and are loosing interest, I hope your mil is ok in the long run.

Your poor MIL. She might get on your nerves, but you're coming across really badly here - you have no compassion and you sound hideously selfish. Ultimately, they're YOUR children - we all want them babysat sometimes, and sometimes plans fall through. Get your head out of your arse and think about someone else other than yourself.

So she is actually physically ill and she's really worried about it.