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What would you say to DH?

31 replies

TheyCallMeMimi · 27/03/2012 16:24

DH wants me to do something I don?t want to do. It?s not illegal or unethical; I just don?t want to do it. He keeps asking me, usually during sex because the idea of me doing it turns him on. It doesn?t turn me on. In fact, if I did it, I would feel foolish.
He uses lines like: ?you can do it just for me?, ?you know you?d enjoy it really?, and ? ha, the trump card: ?you?ve done it before?. Well yes, I have done it before ? but I don?t want to do it again. Last night he asked ?how do I get you to do it??. I replied that he couldn?t GET me to do anything ? I?m not a dog you can train. Well, he took exception to this, stormed out of bed, banged a few doors and slept on the living room floor. This morning he could barely look at me never mind speak to me. ?Good morning? was beyond him. I told him if he had nothing to say to his wife then he had some serious thinking to do.

Any other good lines I should be rehearsing?

OP posts:
ionysis · 29/03/2012 10:37

He is being a dick isn't he. I suggest "stop being a dick".

CogitoErgoSometimes · 29/03/2012 11:07

I think I'd be telling him that 'No' is a complete sentence.... and then repeating until he got the message through his thick head. If he wants to sulk that's NYP...

KatieScarlett2833 · 29/03/2012 16:59

I am partial to "What part of NO do you not understand? Is it the N or the O?"

doctordwt · 29/03/2012 17:14

'I have no idea why you are working quite so hard to make yourself increasingly unlovable and unattractive to me. Really no idea. Do you want to stop now, or carry on until I actually can't bear the sight of you any more?'

DinahMoHum · 29/03/2012 17:48

what is it he wants you to do?

AnyFucker · 29/03/2012 21:47

irritating thread

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