In a valuable thread on narcissism, the OP wrote:
Despite the obvious disintergration of our 'relationship' over the years I still reassured myself that the fact we always had great sex was a sign that there was still a deep emotional connection there between us. I made allowances for certain tastes in sex that seemed to turn h on, wanted to please him, thought I was being open minded, thought that this was at least one part of our marriage that was working!
So true, gosh.
Getting a Grip wrote about cognitive distortion. Is GG still around, does anyone know about this stuff?