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Yet another 'am i being unreasonable' thread!! (sorry!)

16 replies

TambaTheTemptress · 02/02/2006 13:12

Its a silly little moan but he cant see why it annoys me - maybe you can, or maybe you can tell me to stop whining lol

I when I cook, i obviously cook for the whole family, except for if hes not hungrey etc

Ive just been down stairs, He has made lunch for himself and ds2 (Ds1 is at nursery) and nothing for me - he didnt even ask if i was hungrey.

Not the first time its happened.

I knw its a silly little moan but I am hormanal so bear with me

(PS only reply if you are going to say im allowed to be annoyed )

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KBear · 02/02/2006 13:13

yep - deffo allowed to be annoyed. I would kick his a*! Don't make him any dinner tonight and when he asks say you didn't know he wanted any.

Aloha · 02/02/2006 13:14

It's not silly, it's really selfish and unpleasant. Did you ask him why he didn't make you any food. Dh wouldn't dream of not making me a cup of tea or coffee or a meal if he is making one for himself.

doormat · 02/02/2006 13:14

Tamba be very annoyed all you like
My dh does this to me and it p me off
selfish wazzocks

wannaBe1974 · 02/02/2006 13:14

You're absolutely allowed to be annoyed - why didn't he make anything for you? Did you ask him if you'd suddenly become invisible? or if he was psychic and therefore knew that you wouldn't be hungry? Oops sorry I'll stop being sarcastic now lol.

Rhubarb · 02/02/2006 13:14

My dh does this. His reasoning is that I don't like anything he makes! Which is actually true, I am quite fussy. But one weekend I came down, having got all the kids up and dressed etc, and he was sat there eating his breakfast, nothing of me or the kids!

They just don't think!

Don't take it personally, at least he made your ds some lunch!

When you make the meal tonight accidentally on purpose forget to make his!

TambaTheTemptress · 02/02/2006 13:15

He said he didnt think I was hungrey!!

Cheeky Sod he is!

Am tempted to do as you say and cook tea and not make him any - but id feel selfish!

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Angeliz · 02/02/2006 13:15

Very selfish and inconsiderate.
Be annoyed!

Piffle · 02/02/2006 13:16

my dp would never do that!
Grrrr @ your dh tamba

wannaBe1974 · 02/02/2006 13:16

Oooh yeh make nothing for him tonight and say you didn't think he'd be hungry as he ate lunch and you didn't.

Lacrimosa · 02/02/2006 13:17

Try and turn it on him. Next time he thinks he is getting sex go to bed turn off light and fall asleep , if he then quizzes you tell him' I didnt think you were horny!' inconsiderate!!!!

TambaTheTemptress · 02/02/2006 13:18

Do have to say though, he is normally a fab husband, supportive blah blah blah but the little things piss me off!

I will cook his tea tonight but hide it in the oven for a while

And of course deny him sex

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Jackstini · 02/02/2006 13:20

Yes and tell him not to 'think' if you are hungry - next time just use his voice and ask you!

Rhubarb · 02/02/2006 13:23

Whoa! Are you all hormonal today then?

TambaTheTemptress · 02/02/2006 13:25

yup I am deffo hormanal - he should know better than to annoy me on days like this

I am going to show him this thread so he can see that hes an arse

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singednotburned · 02/02/2006 13:31

You should have eaten his lunch, and then said "I didn't think you were that hungry"

TambaTheTemptress · 02/02/2006 13:41

I have just shown him this thread

He Laughed his hairy skinney ass off!

Cheeky bugger.

Well we'll see what hes saying when i dont give him sex tonight

(we arnt arguing over it btw, I just jumped on him a squashed his stomach and when he said it was uncomfortable I did it again and told him it was cause he'd eaten all the lunch )

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