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Will I ever meet anyone? :-(

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MuckyBedding · 19/02/2012 09:22

Been single for around 2 years, relationship before that was shit so it's been a LONG time since I've had that "lurve" feeling.

I'm so worried that I'll never meet anyone. I'm 30 years old, have a decent career and enough money to pay everything I need to pay and have some left for luxuries, holidays etc. I'm told I'm attractive, I keep myself fit, I'm motivated and enthusiastic, pretty fun I'd like to think - yet I'm seemingly on the shelf :-(

All my friends are married or at least with someone, I feel so sad about it all. I want to go on holiday with my significant other, I want to jump in the car and go away for the weekend on the spare of the moment - I want all the normal stuff and yes I know it's not all cute and rosy but I still want it!

I don't think I'd meet anyone at work (nursing) and although I do go to the gym, I never seem to meet anyone there either. Not much time for any other hobbies but I do go out now and again with friends and never meet anyone then either.

I'm dreading spending another Christmas alone :( last year was awful.

Is there a chance I could end up alone forever? :-(

OP posts:
Franziska · 19/02/2012 21:55

I'm in the same boat as well, 31, I'd say I'm not a bad catch, and had a serious relationship from 21 to 28, that just didn't work out. I was at a wedding this weekend, and I felt terrible, although a lot of time, I'm happy on my own, I have a nice job, nice place to live, a good number of friends.

I'll follow this thread with interest

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