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when did you last share a kiss with your DH?

26 replies

mumnosbest · 18/02/2012 10:18

We had our 3rd DC 2wks ago and have been married 10 yrs. I've started worrying about the issue pf sex after none for 9 months then realised I cant even remember our last kiss!
We do love eachother, have hugs and a kiss/peck goodbye but thats it?
When was your last kiss with longterm DH pr DP?

OP posts:
LisaD1 · 18/02/2012 11:07

About an hour ago before he left to play squash.

We kiss a lot, he is very tactile (I am less so but do enjoy kissing him still).

Although, I'm pretty sure we didn't kiss much with a 2week old baby in the house, I remember us wanting to murder each other on a daily basis for the first couple of months!

It's hard with a baby/other children, you must still be exhausted so soon after having this little one, get some rest when you can and concentrate on looking after yourself. As long as there is some affection and communication you can get everything else back on track once things settle down, imo.

And congrats on the baby :-)

TheMonster · 18/02/2012 11:08

months and months ago. Suits me fine.

puds11 · 18/02/2012 12:03

tuessday i think

Hairynigel · 18/02/2012 12:06

A few days a go. I'm not really a kissy person but try to make an effort as dp is.

I wouldn't worry to much in your case, I don't thnk many people have the energy with a 2 week old! Congrats on the new little baby :)

genevacalling · 18/02/2012 12:10

we kiss on the lips all the time but the last proper snog was yesterday.

I don't think we did much snogging when the DCs were two weeks old though! I remember saying I felt like a cow in a milking shed and lots of crying... At my 6 week check I had lovebites (teenager or what!!), though so I guess we started snogging again at some point...

it's normal for the focus to be new baby though!

salamanda · 18/02/2012 19:14

About ten minutes ago. I kiss him all the time. I'm very affectionate and probably quite annoying. We don't have DCs yet though...

sundaybest · 18/02/2012 19:31

Half an hour ago. We kiss a lot :)

Purplehonesty · 18/02/2012 19:38

We kiss/peck a lot but only really snog when having sex.
So not that often lol!

Iteotwawki · 18/02/2012 19:40

About a minute ago - 2DC and married 7 years. The kids are going to be tekling us to get a room when we're older :)

I agree with Geneva though - when DS1 was 2 weeks old I don't think we kissed for days!

Iteotwawki · 18/02/2012 19:41

*telling

NotMostPeople · 18/02/2012 19:43

Kiss this morning, full on snog last night. Been together for fifteen years and have three dc's.

BistoBear · 18/02/2012 21:30

13th December 2011, the day he returned to Afghanistan after 12 days leave :(

He's home in 8 days though and I know we'll more than make up for the lack snogs and shags :) Grin

Pornyissue · 19/02/2012 00:43

Half an hour ago before he went to sleep. Bless him :)

Letchladee · 19/02/2012 00:48

Last peck - about lunchtime, just before I left. We often kiss Grin.

Last snog - probably a couple of days ago.

Married 11 years, 2 DC.

We kiss quite frequently now, but didn't when the Dds were babies.

oreocrumbs · 19/02/2012 00:56

Peck on the lips 40 mins ago when I left work (he is there untill 5am Sad)

Last snog, probably last time we had sex about a week ago I think.

Totally agree that when there is a new baby there was no songging or anything else for a while!

RantyMcRantpants · 19/02/2012 01:22

Married 14 years this year, together 18 years, 3 DC, gentle kiss a couple of minutes ago as we settled into bed, snog about an hour ago. We kiss and touch a lot and always saying I love you, though we have been through a lot together.

BitterAndTwistedChoreDodger · 19/02/2012 01:25

About half an hour ago we had a proper goodnight kiss.

When we had a two week old baby it was more pecks and hugs.

Together 10 years, two DC who are not two weeks old Smile

janajos · 19/02/2012 07:16

we kiss a lot, snog rarely (but good when we do!). When you are tired with young DC it often doesn't happen!

Do you have an affectionate relationship otherwise?

applepieinthesky · 19/02/2012 09:36

This morning before he left for work.
We kiss every day and say I love you every day as well.

Tortington · 19/02/2012 09:42

i kissed the chops of dh this am.

letthembe · 19/02/2012 10:36

Peck - lots throughout each and every day.
Longer kiss - every few days

I'd also like to point out we are rebuilding closeness after his infidelity, so i know this might not be the norm.

Talk to him, it could save heartache later (talking from experience).

Olbasoil · 19/02/2012 10:43

Kiss approx 15 minutes ago, proper kiss last night in bed.

ToxicToria · 19/02/2012 10:46

I don't remember Sad

bran · 19/02/2012 10:51

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Kayano · 19/02/2012 10:59

I got a kiss when DH woke up about an hour ago. I usually kiss him more but he knows I'm a bit down ATM and has been kissing me Smile