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Im acting like a teenager!

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first1 · 16/02/2012 19:51

Evening all!

Just want someone to give me a slap basically. I met a wonderful guy on pof, we've had 6 AMAZING dates in three weeks including valentines day which was so lovely.

We've both deleted our pof accounts, told each other repeatedly how much we like each other and don't want to date anyone else, talk every day. But I'm worried my feelings are developing far far too fast. I'm 24, he's 31 both been single around 2years. I'm scared I'm gonna end up acting like a lovesick knob. Should I be playing it more cool? If so how? I'm a massive loser right now!

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MooncupandPizza · 16/02/2012 19:52

No, don't play it cool, enjoy the rush (but keep the idiot-radar on, just in case)!

HairyGrotter · 16/02/2012 20:01

Go with what feels natural! I was the same with my DP (whom I met in Sept last year) and we're still happy! Enjoy

Magicmayhem · 16/02/2012 20:38

I agree with what mooncupandpizza said... enjoy, go out, have some fun and see what happens Smile the only thing I will say about meeting people on line, as apposed to meeting them through friends is that you know very little about them, including their background, and only have their word on things, so yes, do have that radar on..

I also met my partner on pof... he proposed after about 4 dates, that was nearly 2 and a half years ago and we're planning our wedding next year..

not sure what you mean about being a 'massive loser right now'

AlexTasha · 17/02/2012 11:23

I don't think there is anything wrong with rushing, when it feels right, it feels right! My DP and I met and he moved to the UK with me after 3 months of dating and we have been together 5 years, baby due in May and are getting married in 3 weeks. It has been a whirlwind, but I wouldnt change anything :)

first1 · 22/02/2012 00:09

Update!: I know nobody else cares but im just so so happy. 9 dates in 4 weeks and on Sunday he asked if we could make it official Grin We then slept together for the first time which was amazing I'm so glad we didn't rush. For anyone sceptical about online dating, there are some pretty good guys on there and I've got one. [cringe emoticon]

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Magicmayhem · 23/02/2012 13:02

I'm really pleased for you... Enjoy Grin

mojitomania · 23/02/2012 13:39

Ah, see there are some good ones out there Grin

hoops997 · 23/02/2012 13:57

I met my DP on POF, we have been together since Sept and it has been fab Grin enjoy it and thank your lucky stars (I do every day) that you have found a good 'un

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