hey i started up another con but heres the deal , hubby wanted me and the kids out so we left he told me to go back to my moms, well we eneded up doing that he e mailed my mom telling her that he cant be married to me well i e mailed him yesterday and he said that he was undecided on whether he still wants to be married well on wed is our 5 yr anniversary im in GA hes in OR, we have a 17 month old and a 3 yr old and my 3 yr old is torn to pieces crying for daddy well my friend e mailed him yesterday and asked whats the deal he told me in the e mail that he wants his space etc well today he e mailed her and said that he gonna get a divorce and this n that i dunno what to do, he said he cant take the fighting anymore and that its been gojng on for 2 1/2 yes since he got home from iraq, and his mom is im sure brainwashing him, how can i get him back so we can have our family back??? please help me on this one