Toxic Sibling Help..

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My mother has passed away she lived by ts ( toxc sister) she is making everything about her as she does. As the victim as sustained abuse from her I am depressed anyway and its tipping me over the edge. I cant sleep, eat feel sick I dont know where to turn.

so sorry for your loss, do you have any other family who can help support you?

No one to support execpt elderly father.

She is playing the martyr and will spout any lies to suit she took my mother without our knowledge to live by her.

I only found my mum by luck and research she went mad when she found her new address her social worker had to hide my phone number and address from my sister in her flat. !

No questioning on the unsuitability of such a person being in charge of my mother. ! Lovely bit of social working !

She also told the social worker that she didn`t want any contact with her family. Though she always professed her love for me and said I had made her day when I called.

thanks for your support everyone

Have you had any therapy about the effect/s of your toxic sibling? I have a fair few ts in my family and wouldn't have been able to get through it all if I hadn't had professional support. things have kicked off again (as they do...) and I'm booked in for more therapy. You have my sympathy.

Thanks springdaffs

Its like being sucked into a vortex of whirling pain. As my DP is away I feel alone definetly not functioning it drains you of any power.

Why do they make you so wretched ?