I only attract fairly disturbed creeps

[MitchierInge]

what if this is an immutable fact rather than a series of misjudged sexual events?

it is all very well having sex with myself and I'm not particularly keen on cohabiting or some other full on relationship but it makes me SAD :(

Where did you apologise yellow?

Above.

I'm leaving this thread now, sorry for the hijack OP.

you called my a judgemental bitch, the extra word doesn't make it any less of an insult.

Mitchiest, you may or may not remember me from some of your older threads.
I hope you've sorted the situation out with your care provider. I really do.

Sorry for derailing OP
feel free to report my posts.

Well out of order Archemedes.

Yellow are handling this nonsense with more sensitivity than it deserves.

I'm assuming you can read gomez?

she attacked me first. she shouldn't ive what she can't take frankly.

*give

So, Mitch - how was your birthday?

Did you have a great day/night? And do you feel any older and wiser?

Jog on dafty.

Sorry Mitch.

I want to hear about Mitch's birthday too.

wow what a lot of activity here, what has actually happened? I have read without comprehension, will blame it on the deleted posts. Is it one of those women should not be sexually active except in certain ways and times type things, a sort of reserve your minge for one person's exclusive use otherwise bad things might happen and you will only have your self to blame ?

um, nice birthday thanks tall and izzy but obviously was sort of asleep by 11pm from bit too much to drink and eat. Where did my coke crazed party self actually go?

I remember you kreecher, of course, don't know what the situation with my care provider was then exactly but I probably don't want to remember!

Who is Archemedes? If it's a comedy persona I am loving your work on my thread. If you are real - yikes.

OH it's another of those bucketheads who think that women who have sex without luurrve are soiling themselves.... Never mind him/her/it Mitch.

I will share with you one of my pet red flags though - never ever shag a man who goes on about how awful 'loveless' sex is while trying to get a shag off you. He'll either pick your pocket or stalk you - or bore you to death.

well actually I much prefer sex in a longer term relationship and I do tend to be too lazy to shag around if I am in one, and I do think it, fidelity, is a lovely ambition once you have found someone you love

but is hardly appropriate to bang on about these things when you have barely started even banging each other? which I might do on the first date or I might wait for six months or more, it depends doesn't it?

and anyway it is, as my friend is saying right now, the disturbed creeps that stick in the mind where like most people I attract a range of creeps (and non creeps)

I think you're right. Perfectly-OK-Bloke-You-Just-Don't-Click-With is not half so memborable as the ones that bay at the moon, steal your underwear, turn up with an engagement ring for the first date or shit in your bed and blame it on poltergeists.

You sound as if you are in a better head place Michiest. I am glad.

The coke's turned into cocoa and a book at bedtime, Mitch? Think of it as taking essential time out to rest, relax, and regroup.

I have no doubt that a second wind will blow (no pun intended) again for you soon.

Haha, yes it has. I might put that on my dating profile! Have found a site, was £ouch but it has quality schlong who can ski and spell and sail (I don't like sailing but there must be some land based potential there too).

The dating site's cost £ouch? Regard it as an investment and if it results in you experiencing snowy white powder again soon, it'll be money well spent.

Blimey, have I wandered into an episode of TOWIE?

I actually watched TOWIE for the first time in my life last night, it was a Christmas edition (not long now?) and it was absolutely fascinating. The makeup mainly.

My first date from that site is with someone I already have lots of friends and acquaintances in common - there's a syntactic problem there isn't there? - which is a good start. He seems so nice, funny and genuine I am a bit scared. There is no pleasing me really.

I don't think there are any rules anymore but some women wait, some don't. I usually don't and it's never a problem if there is something there anyway. I would be very very dubious of a man who judged a woman for having sex early on. Not to keen on women who judge either! But definitely each to their own.

Plus you can end up with my recent situation...doing the right thing, waiting, running away in taxis before I got tempted. Eventually had sex and oh no...small willy 5 second guy emerges. This matters to me, but maybe not to others but I was really getting to like him when this happened. It had to end...sorry but I don't want more decades of bad sex.

I think when you get to this age (40s) there are a lot of odd guys around...or maybe we are more aware now we're older. Younger guys are fun if that's all you want as SGB says and they love older women but I like a bit of decent conversation and they are so adorably naive (talking late 20s here).

If you find the answer, let me know!

...and oh yeah...wish we women could stick together more instead of fighting all the time. Nobody should take the moral high ground unless they have led a life completely utterly free of "sin." And that person doesn't exist.

I like this thread. MN seems to have got prissier and prissier over the years ( or maybe I'm just getting older and dirtier ) and this thread is definately not prissy.

I found a nice man and corrupted him. It's definately the way to go.