I only attract fairly disturbed creeps

[MitchierInge]

what if this is an immutable fact rather than a series of misjudged sexual events?

it is all very well having sex with myself and I'm not particularly keen on cohabiting or some other full on relationship but it makes me SAD :(

There isn't but if you keep attracting the same types of people who you don't like, then surely it makes sense to change something you do.

Yes yes yes, but what does trashy mean?

Don't you know what it means?
it means cheap and of poor quality.

I'm not answering any more silly questions as its obvious some people are just grazing over certain words and I'm not feeding the cows,

Like I said in an earlier post i apologise I've I've taken the OP in the wrong.

Maybe you should think about what you're typing then, you know, instead of just coming out with any old shit because you think you're better than them.

Why are you making this about you yellow?

I'm not making it about me. I'm pointing out how judgemental you are being.

You are being frightfully judgey, you know.

I'll type what I like thankyou.

I'm entitled to my opinion the same as you.

I'm not trying to be I'm just posting another angle.

however unpopular my opinion may be I'm entitled to it like anyone else, yellow was personally offensive which I've reported that post.

I get the impression I've hit a nerve and by attacking me shes trying to convince herself she's not trashy, or alt least I think thats what she's doing shes not convincing me.

Er...calling me 'cheap and poor quality' isn't a dig? Because I too have entertained a large variety of gentlemen - and occasionally lady - callers. I don't think I'm 'trashy', by the way. I am far too tedious a middle-class matron.

I don't care about "trashy", it's just not a concept that exists to me.

I HATE seeing women judged for their sexual choices. I think it is horribly demeaning.

You're making a fool of yourself though, so carry on. Anyone with half a brain can see right through you.

Hold the phone..., a few posts back you were actively offended by the word trashy and now you don't think it exists.

The word exists, the concept not.

Actually I just reported that comment I went too far there.
However you reaction goes to show.
don't give what you can't take, something you might wanna take on board

No shit you took it too far.

I have mental health problems, so yeah, I probably am unstable.

I am perfectly capable of giving out what I take. I called you on your judgemental behaviour. I said you were being foolish. And I'd say those things again and happily have them said about me.

But calling someone unstable and acting like other people on MN are talking about them behind their back?

NOT COOL. It's you that needs your behaviour looking at.

Sorry I offended you, but you offended be straight away.
You began being very aggressive.
Do you think its okay to bully others and then hide behind the veil of I have MH problems?
So do i, your point is what exactly?
so do many people.
I don't use it as something to hide behind when I bully others.

Do you think calling someone a bitch simply because they differ from you is okay?

If you think I was bullying you, I'm sorry.

If I upset you, I'm sorry.

If you think I called you a bitch, I'm sorry.

If you think I'm hiding behind my mental health problems, I'm sorry.

Maybe don't a. call people unstable b. be judgemental and c. imply you're gossiping behind backs if you don't want to be called on it.

MH problems or not you deliberately ganged up on me and insulted, thats unstable behaviour, being a bully is something you can control.

I don't think you called me a bitch, you did.

You targeted me on this thread , again and again not an act of my imagination either.

You don't have to have MH to be unstable, someone who thinks the above is okay is unstable like it or not.

I don't mind being called on anything just don't behave like that. I didn't after being swore at.

Use the word bully as much as you like. This was not bullying. Again, sorry if you think it was, but MN tends to have robust posters. I called you on your judgementalness. I disagreed with you. You did the same. That's fine.

You then said others were chatting behind my back. Do you know how horrible that is to think people are doing that? How it makes MN really look like a nest of vipers?

And talking behind backs is - oh yes, bullying.

Look I didn't directly call you a bitch, but can see why you think I did. I apologised.