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did you obsess your dh was having an affiar when you were pg

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cod · 18/01/2006 13:36

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expatinscotland · 18/01/2006 13:37

No.

You're just weird.

cod · 18/01/2006 13:38

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motherinferior · 18/01/2006 13:38

No, but given I was a huge fat grumpy libido-less thing I sort of wouldn't have been amazingly surprised, looking back.

expatinscotland · 18/01/2006 13:39

Ooo, have you read them??! Do they smack of Rebecca Loos?!

C'mon, give us the dirt.

starlover · 18/01/2006 13:39

i'm claire

cod · 18/01/2006 13:39

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Lulu41 · 19/01/2006 13:40

First time round I did and he wasnt second time round I didnt and he was, still is in fact!!!

Enid · 19/01/2006 13:54

no but obsessing over weird things generally atm

also having vile nightmares

Enid · 19/01/2006 13:54

I used to have recurring dream that dh was having an affair though but not when pg

rummum · 19/01/2006 14:00

One of my friends said that when she was pregnant she thought her husband and I were having an affair.. and that he used to pop into my work [busy hairdressers] on his way home from his work!!!
She told me this several years later!!

harpsichordcarrier · 19/01/2006 14:06

I had a dream handy andy was chewing off my leg when I was pregnant

FrannytheQuinoaEater · 19/01/2006 14:12

I was considering having an affair when pregnant, as I was so terrifyingly randy that dp used to run in the other direction when he saw me coming....

VeniVidiVickiQV · 19/01/2006 14:29

Cod, they sound like euphemisms....

PMSL at handy andy!

bubbles2904 · 19/01/2006 14:45

i was really obsessed that dp was having it away with the barmaid in our local. i used to sit and cry whenever he went out, and i'd walk past her house and look in to see if i could catch them together. bloody hormones!!!!

prettyfly1 · 19/01/2006 16:38

lol- i am now beginning to think my pregnancy as a single woman was actually a good thing!!!!!

Prufrock · 19/01/2006 16:55

Yes I did. I was convinced he was having an affair with our (female) personal trainer. she used to come to teh gym in our development to train both of us, but I was so ill I had to stop. I used to smell his gym kit when he got in to make sure he'd used it. At one point I actually accused him of it, citing as evidence the fact that he was showering at the gym rather than at home. I refused to believe his reason - that he didn't want to use our shower (en-suite)in case I was asleep.

Flamesparrow · 19/01/2006 17:29

Not so much having one, just wouldn't blame him if he did... his mate is single, with boobs that point upwards, and she doesn't yell at him!!!

gravity · 23/01/2006 15:35

hi.... did i obsess? maybe.... i cant remember.... i should have..... he was.

MistressMiggins · 23/01/2006 19:24

no but worried hed go off as my friend's husband left her when pg with 2nd....he assured me he wouldnt

however when he left in Nov he told me "we" hadnt been happy since after DS was born so I try not to think about the fact that he may have started his affair b4 I got pg with DD

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