Is this normal (me being paranoid) or is it unreasonable behaviour??

[PuddleDuk]

Am I being unreasonable to be pissed off about dp sending a woman from work private facebook messages??? isn't it more normal to just post stuff on people's walls rather than send stuff like "are you working tonight?" "what you having for tea?" "are you working saturday? me too, see you then :) " I know there is nothing "wrong" with what he's sending but why send stuff like that over private message? he doesn't do it with anyone else

not normal.
red flag.
def suspect.

Another one:

"sat in canteen and keep having to watch Angie's fat arse walking past, putting me off my lunch"

"eeew gross I can imagine it would lol"

That's not normal is it!!!

I dunno, altho I wouldn't say things like that. I have a mate from my teens, male, his gf won't let us be friends so we private msg. Nothing in it at all, he's like a brother. So no I don't think its weird to private msg people like this. I don't like posting on walls, I'd always send a private, male or female.

Sounds like normal banter to me. Office bitching.

What an all round nice dp you have.

I'd say you've answered the question with your thread title.

Is it normal to view someones private account without permission...

Is this the older guy who sexually harasses much younger women at the supermarket he works at?

why not do something to flick the switch back on with you? when was the last time you gobbled his goose?

He's not very nice whatever else he's doing! What a vile thing to say about a colleague.

You are not being paranoid.

Isn't that his private account? Why are you reading it? Worry about it when he sends a 'Last night was great. When can I see you again?' message.