My dp and I have just celebrated our seven year anniversary at the weekend. We had a lovely weekend, all lovey dovey etc etc. Was v happy. Then on Monday night, i was getting my clothes ready for work and I couldn't find a pair of trousers that I knew had been washed but were not in the pile with the rest of the clothes. I remembered seeing dp with them in her hand earlier so I asked her if she remembered where she put them. Dp was in bed at this point but not asleep. She said she had put them with the rest of the washing and was quite huffy.
I was a bit annoyed that dp was being unhelpful and went off to look for the trousers, finding them on the banister. When I told dp I thought she might say 'oh yes I remember I put them there' or something but instead she went off on a rant at me saying I should have looked for them, I shouldn't have 'expected her to get out of bed and look for them'. I didn't expect this at all! Only perhaps a little conversation about where they might be.
I pointed this out to dp and said very mildly that she hadn't been very helpful. At this point she became very angry and vegan telling me to shut the fuck up. I kept responding 'please don't swear at me, don't talk to mr like that' but she just kept saying shut the fuck up and fuck you etc. The last thing I said to her before going to sleep was 'I love you' (as I always do) to which she responded 'fuck off.'
We have made it up now but she has not apologized for swearing at me and says it was because I was having a go at her that she did it. I love her but hate the swearing and anger. Sorry this is long but does this sound normal to you?