Stayed at boyfrend's house last night. He had to go to work early this morning and so left me in bed with a key. When I did get up I put on his laptop ( have my own prfile on it) and went to go and make a coffee. When I came back up the laptop had automatically logged into his profile. No probs, I just just thought I'd do what need to do on there rather than faffing. Anyway to cut long story short on his profle is excessive porn (I knew he liked porn but as he has trouble functioning in "normal" sex we agreed he would stop ths) and numerous datng sites. I logged nto the dating stes and he hasn't actually completed the profiles on them but he's still set them up which is bad enough and they were set up very recently. One was set up just days ago, the other a few weeks ago. So anyway he's at work so can't ask him about them so I'm considering leaving a note on top of his laptop just saying "Dating sites?? we need to talk, call me" or is this too leniant/dramatic? He always was funny about using his laptop in front of me and now I know why!! one time we needed drections somewhere and I said "just bring the map up on your laptop" and he was like "no no its ok, I'll do it on my phone" 20 minutes later the phone stll not managing it I said "laptop would be so much quicker!" and he just would not agree to put it on.