Dreaded SIL!!!!!!!!

[mummykings]

Hello everyone
My dreaded SIL my husbands brothers WIFE!!!She bascially stalks me and doesnt like the attention being not on her what so ever.She uses there children they have towards everyone basically if any1 stands out of line or stands up to her she will use her kids saying ur not seeing them.......OMG i want to slap her!I cant stand much more of this behaviour the spolit b*h should deserve a slap shes called my two children a retard and unloved!!!!!!!!And my inlaws and husband turns round hands in the air and says its just her being her!!!!GGGRRRRHHH i cant stand it anymore feel like im going in sane as she stalks me and every move i make......Everything is turnt into a competation because her husband earns more and they dodge taxes and get the highest amount ever in tax credits and dont pay rent with too many children she has about 3000 in the bank every other month and uses it 2 make me feel like poo as we dont get alot of help and husband only earns 300-350 a week and we have 2 pay full rent and council tax so do struggle majorly but they can go and spend a grand on what ever they like ie flooring....Please Please Please if anyone has any light 2 shed on this dreadful situation please help as im going to explode and not in a good way and feeling very

squeakytoy Like ive stated above......

She knows when my period is due every month....No she doesnt prevent me from havin another but everytime i say me and OH are starting to try for another baby and she puts me down about the situation feeling lonely and very very down.Ive suffered numerious miscarriages and she puts so much stress onto of me as soon as i say we are trying or causing a big arguement between me and OH.

How does she know when your period is due? How? I've never known when anyone was due on unless they tell me - and then tbh I don't want to know!

Information is power and you need to stop giving information to someone who is so clearly going to use it against you. Don't tell her if you are trying for a baby, don't tell her anyting at all. When you see her, talk about the weather if you have to, but nothing about your personal life.

Thank u both yes i suppose ur right i was prob trying to make a friend out of her as i thought we were once close but it turnt out she hasnt liked me from day 1.....Im to forgiving for my own good and i think she knows that but this time i am sticking to it.{thanks]

sorry was ment to say lol

Of course you could have some fun too dropping some misinformation to her via the PIL's & then denying it when she tried to draw you out it

Best not though......

If you and your OH want to have another baby, don't let your SIL get in the way of that, in fact, don't even tell her you're trying. None of her business. And don't be telling anyone she knows either as it could get back to her.

yes i think im going to have some fun here with the misinformation [laughing]

I wouldn't bother with misinformation - you want to stay above her level!

Id be tempted to tell her your thinking of emegrating to australia or south africa , talk about lavish lifestyle and gorgoeus weather . .

Just on the off chance she decides to get in there first !