18&pregnant how do I break the news??

[Nayy93]

RIGHT here it goes im pregnant it was a MASSIVE shock bcoz I have the coil and dnt kno how to tell my parents!! I am Shitting myself arhhh!! So stressed

My parents do not approve of my boyfriend of three years they fink he is a waste of space blah blah blah da main reason is bcoz he gt me preg at 16 had a termination by force and guilt that my parents put on me. I?m determined not to go down that road again!!!
I beg someone help me plzzz!!

I think you lot are begging to miss the real point here lool "ohh gosh"

Nanny, I have in the last couple of years known most students to have a part time job, I think it's since it all went degree they have the weekends free

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OP, congratulations.

You say you only found out on Saturday, you need to get a proper scan to find out where the coil is, why you are bleeding and how far along you actually are. Until then, I wouldn't tell anyone. Good luck.

What is it with all the "lol"s ?? Cant teenagers have a decent conversation without lols etc?

I am starting to suspect this is a wind up.

This is a wind up. OP sort yourself out. People are giving genuine advice here believing you and you're blatantly taking the piss out of them. Go back to bed and give your mummy/daddy/aunt/brother/cat/dog back their laptop. There's a dear.

Amazing how well Nav can write when she is given a few standards required (we are not amused by your infantile textspeak and question your competence)

Kind of illustrative of what is required in state schools. A little less worry about 'self esteem' and a bit more arse kicking.

loool @ Wittsend!

Yeah- dyslexia doesn't mean you write in text speak.
Or abuse exclamation marks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I smell bollocks.

And not for the first time. ahaaaaaaa

What an odd thread, I really don't know if you're for real Nayy93 but I think you really need to go back to your doctors.

You say that a nurse told you that you're pregnant on Saturday (was this at the GPs?) but hasn't followed up the fact that you have a coil. I'm not an expert but surely this would be something that would need to be checked asap.

I notice that some of your posts are well written but others come across as some kind of parody - you might get better help if you can stick with the well written ones.

Sorry it has taken me a while to reply. I have gotten my blood results back and their not good, I'm currently suffering from a miscarriage because of my coil. Thank you for those who gave me positive feedback to my situation. xx

Sorry if you have had a miscarriage.

However, you sound as though you need to sort your life out. Get rid of the boyfriend.

Sorry to be harsh but if this is the future of nurses, jeez ..... I am one of those who "finks" people should write correctly.

Navy, Im sorry too. The timing wasnt right and, there will be more opportunities. Please dont be too sad.

I hope you now get your head down and finish your training, who knows what it could lead to? You have so much time on your side, Im really envious.

Talk to the staff at the hospital regarding some contraception. My friend really gets along with the implant and, that will cover you for afew years. Theres all different options.

Good Luck.

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I'm so sorry OP :( been there and know how it feels :(

Take care and look after yourself lovey xxx

To all the ladies with the bingo cards... you may be right, then again the OP may just be a young girl who's had a miscarriage. Can I very politely suggest that if you are a doubter then just ignore the thread, I would hate to add to someone's distress if they really are in that situation as I know how hard it can be.

OP, if you are genuine then you have my sympathies and you should confide in your mum for some support. Take care xxx

Aww bless ya OP! Just tell them. Like a previous post said your tutor will know what to do with your nursing. Whatever you do DO NOT let anyone tell you:
You're a bad mum cause you're young. (I don't believe age is important to being a mum)
That you'll never be a nurse while you have a baby.
& that you've ruined your life.

People who say those things aren't worth wasting time on cause they'll do anything to kick you down to rock bottom. You can do this if you really want it. Congratulations! Xx

emmielu read the thread FGS, the poor girl has just had a miscarriage.

What wonderous said.

I know its irritating when people use text speak, I can't stand it, but this is an 18 year old girl, so I think taking the Piss is a bit wrong.

Op, take care of yourself.

For the record when I sent that message I then read the latest ones the next day before I left for holiday. Havent managed to check until now.

Sorry for your loss.

Sorry to hear about your loss OP. Perhaps it wasn't the right time for you, perhaps you will learn something from this experience, do well with your nursing career and make sure that the man you pick to make babies with is the one who will be a really good Dad.

Don't listen to the doubters - I'm sure you will be a brilliant nurse. You should learn all you need about professionalism / spelling etc in your training.

I'm sorry to hear about your miscarriage OP. I hope EPAU/GP is taking good care of you.

However, I am with your parents on this one. I would be very wary of your bf. Was he really happy because a baby on the way means he gets indeinite leave to remain or is he genuinely happy that he was going to be a dad? How has your bf reacted to the news of your miscarriage?

Good luck with your degree.