I am so glad i did what i did (cheating husband)

[issey6cats]

a couple of months ago i found out my husband had been chatting up women and texting for meets on a dating site for the third time, that was the straw that broke the marriage back, threw him out, and after talking to someone who knows him very well have found out this weekend that he is still seeing one of them and another woman at the same time and still going on the dating site every night so i am glad i threw out this useless heartless piece of shit, even though i am living hand to mouth and am lonely

I am glad too

well done you x

Well done, onwards and upwards.

Awww but the loneliness is hard. My OH has not gone yet, I wish he would... but even though I am lonely, I am better when he isnt home!

yes

I would rather be lonely for the rest of my life than put up with shit like that

make some new mates and dump the cheating fucker

The loneliness is hard because this type of shitty man often tries to isolate you from people. Once he's gone, you can move on and make friends. The loneliest place to be is in a shit relationship.

YOU ARE NOT ALONE THOUGH, you always have us mumsnetters whenever you need someone to listen to you. Myabe go on mn local and arrange to meet some other mums and you will start to feel better.

thank you all spent last night not sleeping and in tears for most of it, i do have friends great kids (who have thier own lives) and am at college , i suppose i just need to get him out of my head which is the hardest part, we were together for eight years and when he was great he was fantastic, i feel sorry for his next victims as a while down the line they will be where i am, hes probably telling them all the same lies he told me, he sucks you in sucks you dry and dosent care how many bodies lie bleeding at the end of it, i know this sounds daft and people either like cats or they dont, but a big furry cuddle is great, and also i miss sex with him cos beleive it or not he did float my boat there oh god im rambling now

these users are nice some of the time, or you wouldn't bother with them

they often have certain "skills" too, whether that is a great line in chat, a proficiency badge in cunnilingus or the ability to sweep you off your feet

the real him always comes out in the wash though...