Who initiates sex?

[Plecostomus]

Just had a conversation with DP about this, for us it's usually me who suggests / makes the first move, which is not an issue but I was just wondering what's 'normal' for other couples? Obviously one person's 'normal' is another persons 'OMG you freak!', just nosey wondering ......

Invariably me.

On the one hand I would like him to do it more. On the other hand, I do not like to be taken by surprise (I like to have brushed my teeth for a start!).

Me too [and Im with bbface on the brushing teeth thing... Ill raise you matching underwear too hehe!]

Me usually. I'd like DH to initiate more but he says I accuse him of pestering me. Which I probably do but he usually tries it on when I'm clearly really busy or tired. He can't win can he

ha, tooeasilytempted, i could have written exactly that

TheLastNameLeft... matching underwear is pointless. DH always wants it off immediately!

Shaved legs a must. Otherwise I just do not feel in the mood

Ha! Love the responses. With you on the shaved legs, the underwear is a nice idea but we're usually naked & in bed anyway so it's already in the laundry basket by the point it comes up. Umm, YKWIM

bbface, some of my underwear combos [usually donned at 6am when I am not quite awake yet] are not greatly conducive to getting me feeling like the wanton wench I'd like to be sometimes

agree again on the shave though.. I tend to neglect myself more in the winter months

both (we tend to launch at each other) but we do go months without seeing each other....... but skype-sex is all him

He nearly always does. Sadly I seem to be so tired and stressed at the moment its the last thing on my mind.
But I did have a rather rude dream the other night and initiated it myself