My OH never comes out with me, never wants to do anything and spends all weekends/evenings lying on the settee. I am finding the physical side of our relationship more and more impossible the larger he gets. I have been extremely tired lately and get cross when I get groped as the alarm goes in the morning. This is my fault apparently, my hormones are wrong. I went to the doc this morning to get blood test results (no thyroid gland) and my drug dose is apparently fine. He is very annoyed that I didn't ask for HRT to improve my sex drive [hmmm]