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Is this morally wrong? A tricky question

81 replies

lolaflores · 17/11/2011 12:45

Recently returned from a school reunion. On the subject of one patricularly unpleasant piece of work, it became apparent to me, that most of the people started the reminiscense with "that time she hit me". Again and again, that was what was repeated.

So, in light of that and my own treatment at her hands i wonder the following;
to bring a civil case against her. No surprises this happened in Ireland. She has left a wake of damage behind her, a total psychopath. This is only the kernel of a thought, not even an idea. I want her to feel as terrorised as all us kids felt. Punched, pinched, slapped, humiliated, physcially thrown around, smacked on top of the head, shoved. made kneel on the floor and say endless rosaries. i do not remember much teaching going on. kids wetting themselves. mindless fear and terror every day.

I could not even guarantee that anyone would give statements, or how to go about it. I want to scare the shit out of her at the very least.

OP posts:
Rational · 19/11/2011 11:35

Another thing to consider would be one of the support groups for clergy abuse, they'll probably be able to give the best advice on how to proceed and may have ideas for help with any legal or financial worries. Go get em!

ameliagrey · 19/11/2011 11:51

Bubble you are not doing yourself any favours by posting these kind of personal comments about my posts. you are quite at liberty to argue the point-and i am happy to argue the point back with you if you wish. I am not going to accept you being abusive to me- rather ironic considering the topic- simply because I offered another perspective- the same, actually as many others at the start of this thread.

I have reported you to MNHQ.

bubblechristmaspop · 19/11/2011 12:01

I'm not bothered grey. Most people on this thread have seen your posts and reacted accordingly :)

Go crying to teacher.

ameliagrey · 19/11/2011 12:51

You really are coming over as very , very immature with yet another personal comment.

And the comment about crying to teacher is both distasteful given the context of this thread and ironic as I am a teacher , LOL!

PamBeesly · 19/11/2011 13:02

lola if you ever make your way back here, contact the One In Four organisation, if for nothing more, than a supportive, non-judgemental ear, what you put up with was awful. They could advise best on how to move forward (not let go) whether that would be pursuing the matter through the court system or not. Please do take care, sometimes the pain of acknowledging the suffering just brings it all back

bubblechristmaspop · 19/11/2011 14:31

So to say someone is spouting drivel and being offensive to op is now removable.

What is this net mums?

Op don't listen to grey. This is not your problem or your issue to work through in silence. A police complaint will be taken seriously. I understand your need for justice.

Teachers look out for each other ITT clearly.

Amelia the report button is at the bottom. Tap away. :)

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