Personal question- about sex & size.

[Teenyone]

My partner is "slim".

When we first met, I thought he was, but time erased the memory of other men. But last year we split up for a while- I had a brief relationship with someone else, which reminded me of DP's size- or lack of it.

We are now back together- probably for good- but I am worried about size.

I haven't taken a tape measure to him but the girth is less than many men- length is okay.

Don't want to sound cruel, but it's more Frankfurter than Cumberland sausage.

I don't feel much during penetration- have had 2 DCS- but also had a repair so I am not too slack.

Any ideas how I can make it better for me without offending him?

strap on? sorry but the cumberland had me in fits ... sorry

Me too!
You can get a ‘helping friend’ from Anne summers that totally helps,, there are items that he can wear that will help stimulate you! It's called the pulsatron 2 well worth a try!!

Oh God no- to a strap on!

He's a great guy- will do anything to try to please me, and there is no way I can let on about this. We've been together for ages- apart from our temporary split- and he thinks he's "fine"- refers to ex's who were very "happy" when we make silly jokes about size, in general, but his ex's were when he was in his teens/ early 20s and I suspect they were inexperienced and happy with a shag of any kind.
But I know that the first time we did the deed, I thought OMG, he's thin.

I wondered if any position I could use might make it a tighter fit? I also wonder if I am insensitive- physically- as TBH once he's inside he may as well be sticking it in my ear for the pleasure I get.

Seriously try it it's fab there are tools you can both use so he will just see it as spicing up the bedroom and you can use that as an excuse,? My hubby is the opposite thick but short! I better delete this lol... And it worked for us

Swap- I think thick and short would suit me.

I wasn't complaining
Hope all works out for you

the obvious choice of position is from behind, as makes you tighter. Generally angles should work..

but he has to have strong erections for "tighter" positions! hopefully no issues with that.

Try the pulsation you'll not be worried how big he is!!!

I get regular emails from certain pharmaceutical companies in Russia who are confident they can help with this. If you PM me your partner's email address, I'll happily forward them to him.

LOL @ confidence- we all get those emails- even him, I assume!

From behind with your legs together... can also be good like that with him on top with your legs closed... with the slimmer jims out there.

This threads making me laugh, but seriously try THIS - (you can get it cheaper elsewhere)

sorry to hear this, but i am not sure there is much to help... its a design fault between the 2 of you....

sounds like wheresmywaist has the answer....bloody pricey though!!

Lmfho at wrapping socks round it!!

FPMSL at sad little walnut whip

Oh I feel for you, I'd choose girth over length any time. I had a 'slim' ex and that combined with any time that i was particularly wet meant that I could hardly feel him at all.

Any position where you can close your legs once he's inside should help.