About to become a lone parent

[Nat38]

Hi
Not sure if this is the right thread, but Im sure youll point me in the right direction if its not!! Me & hubby of 20 years have finally accepted today that out marriage is over & that there is nothing left to salvage. We have 2 DD age 11 & 12. Hubby says that he is not quite ready to leave yet, I imagine that he has a lot of stuff to work through. Im reasonably happy with this as long as he quite civil with me. Im quite easy going & have the kids interests at heart. One last christmas & all that!! My question is where do I go from here?? Or where do I go as soon as we see the new year in??!! I know I can cope emotionally & with the kids but what about finances & him seeing the kids etc?? Can I force him out of the family home sooner than he wants?? Im quite looking forward to life without him!! Itll be a lot more relaxing for me & the kids!! & peaceful!! Sorry to come across as being a bit of a bitch but I cant help feeling the way I do.
Any advice most welcome!
Thanks

didnt want to leave this unanswered but sorry dont have any experience of this ... but nevertheless wanted to wish you good luck and the best sign is that you feel youve reached the right decision and are looking forward to the future ... do your children know?

Yes children know. Youngest DD very upset at times, but fine inbetween! Oldest DD it`ll come out in a couple of weeks if past upsets are anything to go by!!