AF et al, I have finally seen the light

[SarahStratton]

MrRBW. He's actually not a very nice person, is he. And I'm using him as an excuse for not moving on and actually getting a life. If I'm sitting on the side lines, patiently waiting for him, I'm not allowing myself to even attempt to move on.

He's not even contacted his DC to wish either of them Happy Birthday. He's always banged on about how much he misses them, how hates his ex wife for poisoning them against him.

He's done that all himself.

And I have been an absolute idiot.

Thanks, I have , lots of . And Crevix has Hagan Daas if you'd like some. On her poorly arm thread in Chat.

The only tears youll be shedding in future, honey, are tears of joy

Have another and let's see you smile - you know you want to!

40 years here . Any advance? Perhaps I should ask on Gransnet?

You are still breathing, aintcha, NIB ?

Then it ain't too late

50 is the new 30, nib. By that reckoning 60 is the new 40 so you can expect a midlife crisis sometime soon - a toyboy will put a smile on your face

Those years were not all wasted - but could have been a lot better. I have been clinging to the idea that 60 is the new 40 for some time, not quite there yet, but by the time I am I will be single again. I feel great already!

Reasons to be cheerful all round - and here's another round

What a lovely thread you've started, Sarah. It makes such a refreshing change to read good news on this board.

Well done Sarah Well done.