Have just finished a 13 hr night shift. DD is at her dad's. We arranged months ago that he would have her from christmas day night to this evening as I was to work the bank holiday night, so naturally I need some sleep. Have had a call from him on my mobile while at work 'what time do you want DD back this morning?' WTF? He says we didn't arrange things the way I thought, even though I have it in my diary. He can't possibly have her more than till lunchtime as they (he and Girlfriend) have to go to the shops. Sales shopping, not food. So now I have bugger all time to sleep. Am knackered. Want to cry. He can just come and go as he pleases. Its not fair. Gonna have to really bite my tongue on this one. Bought him a diary for christmas from DD. Gonna make sure he uses it! Sorry for rambling.