Ok so I said to DP if you don't know what to get me this is what I want and need. I need a casual bag to replace the one I have which is falling apart and is frankly a security risk. I showed him the type of thing I need on the Internet and told him which shop would almost certainly have them.
So he goes out and comes back with presents for everyone in his family but no bag. He 'wasn't sure what to get'. WHat really irks me is I can't get to shops and this was my only opportunity to get the bag I need. On top of this he has gone to his family's house today and left me with 2 kids and a mountain of work to do before tomorrow which I can't cos DD is only 11mths old and pretty demanding.
His absemce also means I can't go to the shops myself. He is also wondering what is bothering me today.