Please tell me about kind loving men

[Punkatheart]

I am struggling at the moment. I really don't want my opinion of all men to be coloured by the fact that my OH has abandoned me and DD. But I cannot understand how such a lovely man, I man I have known for 20 years, has become so callous. Please tell me about kind men and lovely partners....I need to believe that the world is a better place. I have kept all my OH's messages on the answerphone and I played them today...messages where he called me darling, where he sounded loving...it all feels like a dream now.

So please...tell me about lovely people, lovely things they have done. Or I may dig a hole and look only at the sky. I feel as if I am going mad, when the universe can be so cruel.

Sorry to hear that FagAsh. Please don't give up. It hurts, doesn't it? I am still in so much shock but the biggest shock is that my OH has not been in touch with his daughter for over a week. I cannot understand how a parent can dissociate with their child - unless they are ill. That's the only logic I can find, that he is depressed and wants to step away.

Sigh.