Because I bloody well am!
Ok, he does get a xmas present every year but it's always after I've said "please choose something your self for me this year" about 50 times.
He never can choose for himself, so I always end up telling him "I'd like X, y or z" about a week before xmas.
He does get me nice things but, and I'm aware this sounds really ungrateful, he always gets me the most expensive of X, y or z. It almost like he feels guilty so spends that much to make up for it.
For example, Last year we had the same situation and he said "But I just don't know what you like "
I jokingly said "well, I like leather bags but you'd never be able to choose one of those, I'd like some boots bou again you hardly even know my size and I'd like a diamond ring but I already have one of those"
He bought me a ring. It's lovely but I really wasn't expecting him to get it.
The thing is I've spent £12 on him. £12 on 3 little presents, one from each Ds. I know he'll love each thing because I know him, I know what he'll use, like and appreicate(sp?) because after 10 years I've learnt all these things.
It really offends me that after 10 years he still has no idea of what he can get me that I'll like without giving him instructions or spending a furtune.
I'd be happier with present that cost £10 that he'd really thought about.