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A simple hug....

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momofo · 20/09/2011 18:47

What does it mean when you cannot give your DH so much as a hug...?? Is that you have fallen out of love or are a heartless b*tch??? Its what I craved for so long and now I cant switch back and give it to him after a loveless relationship for 2/3 years.................

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MangoMonster · 20/09/2011 18:58

If you've had a loveless relationship for 3 years, it's not surprising that you don't want to hug him. Do you still want to be with him?

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momofo · 20/09/2011 19:04

NO i dont think I still want to be with him and he cant understand that...we have 2 young DCs....I feel like the worst person in the world because my feelings have changed so much now and I dont want to hurt anyone..he is a good good man but we drifted, probably both out faults and I cannot find my way back :(

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MangoMonster · 20/09/2011 19:17

It must be a very difficult situation to be in. I take it you have discussed it with him and haven't been able to come up with anything that could help. Do you think some form of counselling might help you get closer?

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