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Lief after divorce-7 yrs on.Hope for all.

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ledkr · 14/09/2011 08:27

Hello all.

Today would have been my 17th wedding anniversary had he not exchanged me 7 years ago.

I am happy,remarried and having a ball. I never give him a second thought apart from to wonder why he ignores his beautifull children.
I have single handedly bought up my 9 yr old dd and she is a delight.
My ds's are all grown and doing very well.

I am very proud of myself and them.

Anyone care to join me in a toast to absent knobheads?

I though this may bring a glimmer of hope to some of you,and maybe a smile.

Onwards. Grin

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ledkr · 14/09/2011 08:30

ps,obviously i mean life Grin Im sure you can work it out tho.

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lubeybooby · 14/09/2011 08:43

to absent knobheads :o

I am very much happier without my exdh. It's been a bumpy road but a happy one most of the time and I have no doubt there is better to come. Hearing things like this helps keep the positivity up so thank you :o

ledkr · 14/09/2011 12:49

chin chin, thanks ladies.

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wellthatsdoneit · 14/09/2011 16:12

Great thread. Good to know that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Here's to you and the absence of knobbers.

ledkr · 14/09/2011 17:28

Im so glad a few of you have been boosted by this,i was truly lost and scared and am now a different person.
The only way is up girls.

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brightwell · 14/09/2011 19:34

I'm almost 12 years down the line and have to agree...life couldn't be sweeter. I've moved house, studied for a degree and brought up 2 dc. I do have a long term partner, we don't live together. Suits us both fine. And while it has been an emotional roller coaster at times...to get to this stage of contentedness (don't think it's a word) I would go through it again to get where i am.

ledkr · 15/09/2011 17:06

Thats a nice post brightwell i would do it all again as well,im not sure about the children as he hardly has anything to do with them but i guess i cant control that.

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Patienceobtainsallthings · 15/09/2011 22:55

Yep life is so much better since i split from Ex 2 yrs ago .......FREEDOM Smilexxx

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