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just found condoms??

11 replies

kayb123 · 08/09/2011 14:35

i was putting washing away while 19mth daugther emptie the draw (a weird faze at mo), anyway today see goes for husbands bed side draw, after afew thing a thrown on flow and played with she pulls out 11 condoms (two strips and a single), we haven't used these in years, the expire date is 2015 so not old one, i know these are sold in packs of 12.

i dont understand, he is not one the phone all the time and doesn't stay out at night or even really have 'late' nights at work unless you call 6pm late. just a little confused as surely if seeing someone else he would be spending time away, he isn't pulling way or being unloving in anyway... what on earth do you think is going on?

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mumsamilitant · 08/09/2011 14:38

Think he'd be pretty stupid to leave them in the bedroom drawer if he was playing away to be honest.

luvsaschnoozer · 08/09/2011 14:44

Posh wank maybe?

Hassled · 08/09/2011 14:46

2015 could still be quite old, though, couldn't it - don't they have a really long shelf life? Agree that if he was up to no good he's unlikely to have left them in such an obvious place.

ColdTruth · 08/09/2011 14:50

Condoms have a shelf life of 4 years if kept cool and dry, if you want an answer best ask your DH and judge his response.

mh85 · 08/09/2011 15:08

Similar thing happened to me but 2 went missing.... OH denied it wholeheartedly so I think he was off doing his thing.

I reckon he's probably just saved you doing some washing - but confront him and if he denies it then ask more questions until he spills the beans.

Aislingorla · 08/09/2011 16:35

Two years ago I found condoms in my DH's bedside table ,immediately asked him about them (I have had the coil fitted for 5 years now). He told me everything there and then (affair, of course, with colleague).
Don't waste any time, just ask him straight out!
Good luck.

Aislingorla · 08/09/2011 16:37

PS; He wanted to be found out, therefore left them in an obvious place. I had suspected nothing.

mh85 · 08/09/2011 16:39

@Aislongorla - what a complete and utter wanker. Hope you're well shot of him and happy now x

MangoMonster · 08/09/2011 16:40

You should ask him straight but don't jump to conclusions.

Aislingorla · 08/09/2011 16:49

Oh mh85! long boring story but we're still together!
He was desperate to stay and has not put a foot wrong since!
Agree with Mango, ask ASAP!

Aislingorla · 09/09/2011 08:23

Hope you are OK.

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