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How do I leave

3 replies

Chucklecheeks · 21/08/2011 12:28

i want to have a trial separation but I have no idea how to go about this. I moved to another town to be near to work, DD school is here as is DS nursery. I could only leave to go to my parents but then I would have to leave the kids and I'm not prepared to do that.
How do people do this. I am just getting unhappier and something needs to be done.

Thanks CC

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HerHissyness · 21/08/2011 13:15

You leave with the DC, they will settle eventually. don't ever leave them behind.

If things need to be planned, then plan them. Talk to your parents, apply to schools/nurserys for places and when you have more or less boxed off, go for it.

Theyremybiscuits · 21/08/2011 13:19

DON'T LEAVE THE KIDS. TAKE THEM WITH YOU.

They will adapt far better than you think they will. Especially when they have a happier parent around.

Everything gets better when you remove yourself and them from the source of your unhappiness. x

FabbyChic · 21/08/2011 13:24

Why cant he move out why should it be you? You have the children he can fend for himself.

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