am i just being silly

[rayofsunshine]

I clicked on the history on the comp and found a site a adult site but u can send messages etc, there was quite a few, some where messages and others were just looking at women.

In my partners email address he has emails from this site to say he has a mesage or whatever, but if im around he 'claims' that hes tried blocking them and the site is from b4 we met.

He doesnt know ive seen hes been looking recently, should i confront him or just leave it.

We havent been getting on to well lately either, lots or rows etc.

Well, I'm not too hot on technical stuff, so I wouldn't know how to interpret this.

I've learnt not to mind about porn anymore - it seems that almost all men want to look at it, even when happy in their sex lives, so I can live with that, personally.

But I'd draw the line at communicating with other women in a sexual context. Is this a dating site, or a "pay for" site?

If you don't ask him about it and push until you get a response you can believe, won't it be festering away causing resentment/suspicion? It would for me.

I'd say it's best to discuss it as soon as possible. Try to stay calm and you're morelikely to get the truth IME.

Best of luck if you do ask him.

I'm with mini - don't have anything against porn in general, but do have issues with talking sexually with women/emailing.

talk to him - and if he does try to say it's no differnt to u talking on MN - I'd personally say well actually it is - discussing the price of bread/nappies etc is v diff to sexual talk with strangers. iycwim.

alternativly u could do the sneeky thing and watch the goings on for a few days to see? but that's sneeky!