Friends. Ah well, right again.

[SarahStratton]

Why do some people seem to think it fine to bitch and shit stir?

Lesson learnt. If someone is bitching about others behind their backs, they are going to do it to you too.

See, if you're a miserable sod, like me, you don't have any friends. No one can bitch about you, then.

Not helpful, sorry.

i would say to the person bitching'i wonder what you say about me when my back is turned!'

just lets them know you've got their number!!!

No need to answer this, just having a small rant and letting off steam.

I did. All blew up in my face. 'Blah, blah so that's what you think of my friendship, drivel, drivel'.

My point entirely ILT. That is exactly how it made me feel. I can't deal with confrontation so now it's all been twisted and somehow is my fault.

I hate people who think they can take advantage of others, knowing they don't like confrontation. It's cowardly and bullying. If you were confrontational, she wouldn't dare do it in case you found out.