I have a six month old. My partner is great - he helps where he can giving me weekend lie ins and changing nappies and feeding the baby etc. But I still feel that he feels he is helping me out - his language even gives it away when he asks me what can he do to help me with the baby - after all, it's not my job that he is helping me with but both out jobs.
So this sounds narky but it's not - I appreciate all he does. I just want to know whether anyone actually has a partner who does do half when they are around? For example our baby is on medication - I always know whether she has had it or not and therefore whether she needs the next dose. My partner occasionally asks me if she has had it but not reliably, so effectively remembering her medication is my job even though we both can and do administer it.
Another example is pooing. The baby has trouble pooing sometimes. I always know when her last poo was - ie was it two hours ago or five days ago, and therefore does she need some medicine to help it come out. even though we both change nappies when around I bet my partner usually has no idea when the baby last did a poo.
does yours? Or is it always the mum who knows this kind of info and not the bloke too?