What do you say?

[MrMan]

OK, asking advice on behalf of a friend.

Her DH came home the other day with a rather large... um... toy.

Fine she thinks. So there comes the time when they have reason to use it, and it turns out that he wants to them to use it on him.

She went along with it at the time but felt fairly strange about it and has asked me if it was normal and/or something she should read into. I was a little lost for words so decided to put it out for an MN vote. Thoughts please...

Some guys like toys, it's quite normal. I haven't experienced it myself, but a friend of mine has. Lots of nerve endings there...

Thanks Onemorning for your answer. I was going to post in Dadsnet but then I thought that men jumping on to say "yes, I do like a large one up my backside" was unlikely and maybe I would get more feedback from this side.

Glad to be of assistance :) I met a girl online once who said that she and her DP enjoyed 'pegging', she'd wear a strap on and you can guess the rest.

I can imagine the replies you'd get on Dadsnet

Relationships might be worth a try?

I shouldn't drink when flicking between AIBU and relationships. Sorry about that.

She should ask him about it. He clearly feels comfortable enough to get her to do it, so surely they can talk about it?

My dh wants to get us one for me to use on him. Nothing wrong with it imo.

As long as he likes it - nothing wrong with it.

many men love things up their backside (tell her to get hold of lots of water based lube)

truefax :)

Don't think it's that unusual, I tried a (sorry tmi alert) finger on ex and he loved it although he hadn't thought of it before.

Oh yes, plenty of lube, don't hurt him!!

Thanks all for the replies. Will pass along the MN verdict that bum toy love rulez and all is good.

As ever...whatever consenting adults like doing etc. But he isn't alone in liking it.