Just need to vent. DH was a bit heavy handed with brushing 2yr DD's teeth and she started choking on the tpaste. I was busy with DD 3yr but went to sit her up - she really was coughing and almost being sick for a good few minutes. I was livid and let it be known - didn't shout but he knew I was mad and so did 3yr old unfort. - She was then upset and wouldn't kiss him good night which I then felt guilty about. Now he's sulking in another room. We have so many instances like this. I feel like our relationship is a bloody struggle at times. We both get so stressed.