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husband on porn dating sites

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patsybarberwhite · 19/06/2011 12:40

Feel so jaded and worn out writing about this. I'm still in shock. Just found out husband of 12 years has spent the last year contacting women, having virtual sex with them and sending naked photos of himself. The irony is, I never thought it would happen to me! We have a good, open sex life, and have overcome lots of hurdles in our relationship. I finally thought we were happy. I feel so betrayed. Would love some support and advice

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GypsyMoth · 19/06/2011 12:44

? shocking!

has he met up with them? as that seems to be the idea of these sites

sorry for you Sad

GypsyMoth · 19/06/2011 12:45

meant to say,how did you find out all this?

annieatnofour · 19/06/2011 12:57

Patsy

Iam so sorry to hear about this.
I have been through ( am going through) similar and its soul destroying.

Do you want to stay with him = does he know that you know?.

Take your time to process how you feel and dont make any rash discisions

Pm me if i can be of any help (my thread is help and support needed please if you want a read)

Look after yourself and take care

annie
x

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patsybarberwhite · 19/06/2011 21:03

Thanks for your messages. I found out because I had to access his computer and I saw the links. He had loads of "friends" but I didn't see any details of contact. He claims he hasn't spoken or met any, but he would say that wouldn't he.
I don't feel like I want to end the relationship but there have been so many challenges in our relationship, its like he has to sabotage it every now and again. It's exhausting

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allegrageller · 19/06/2011 21:08

is it Adult Friend Finder, patsy? If you can bear it go back into the account and check the settings. It may be true that he was only after 'internet sex' but it's unlikely. Even so, imho that's pretty bad. I'm v sorry to hear this.

RalphPootawn · 21/06/2011 22:14

yes I like those sites

Renaissance227 · 22/06/2011 15:52

What kind of a comment is that RalphPootawn?!
Not at all constructive of supportive. Sad

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