...as the poem might go...
.... give me strength to change things that I can without him interferring or talking over me
.....give me strength to argue my my corner without the fear of verbal retribution
....give me strength to challenge him when he is stepping out of line... without him having a tantrum...
...and finally give me strength to finally amuse myself when he decides that he does not have to long to live and it will all ?be mine?....... after a heated debate..
Good Night...