Quick, can anyone help me out?

[carla]

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Gah. Has he done something this silly before?

I don't know what to suggest, particularly if he won't admit it ...

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Does he not have his own email address, could someone be playing a prank?

Oh dear, poor you. Before rushing in to anything:

Are you 100 % certain that it was him? e.g. checked history to see what websites he has been looking at.

Would he really be so stupid to use your email account?

I gather that description fits him exactly? (money aside?)

If it is he's been a bit of a tw*t. I dont know if he is dad to your girls or what and its up to you to decide if your relationship is worth saving but i would certainly give him a bloody hard time over this and see where it takes you.

If the weight, star sign, and occupation all match, it's hard to say it's not him ...

If the weight, star sign, and occupation all match, it's hard to say it's not him ...

Carla, before taking such severe action as changing the locks & kicking him out, I do think you need to do the face to face confrontation. Are those his actual details? Does he have friends or colleagues who could have set this up as a prank or a joke?
Has he ever done anything like this before, are you going through a bad patch?
It's so hard to advise with so little information.

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would he actually be so stupid as yto use your e-mail address for something like that though?

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oh dear
would definitely do as someone else suggested and check the history on your comuter and see if he has been on those sites though

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one of the bits at the to pof the browser should have the option of "view history" or might just be "history"

am using a weirdo faux-firefox so can't look at it on mine right now

but it['s under File, or View or something

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In terms of likely timing does he have access to a different pc?