help advice needed

[chickychick]

l have been a lurker for a couple days and decided you ladies might be able to help sorry long story but basics are married for 22 years found out in Nov hubby had a 'lady friend' through facebook threw him out the same night although he said never met only messaging each other (yeah right) but the sad thing was l trusted him completely (fool) anyway sorry rambling here but my head is so messed up it occured to me do l need to get checked for sti's? he admitted tonight that he was sleeping with her whilst with me l am so stupid l hope you can make sense of this l am crying l cant take any more of this crap

chickychick

Poor you. I would get tested if I were you. Peace of mind and all that.

Thanks Sue i am so embarrassed but l know its the sensible thing l have texted him to ask were there any more woman l should know about but he did not answer l really hope his bits fall off ba**d

Yes, definitely get checked out at your local GUM clinic! They will be really helpful and sensitive. If you feel more comfortable, you could go to one in another town, and even give a false name, the most important thing to do is get checked. Good luck.