That your husband of 23 years had been using prostitutes for ten years, spending thousands, and then had an affair for 18 months with one of them and set up home with the girl would you forgive him?
Genuinely not me by the way but a friend :(
I think she is still in shock but actually thinking of trying again, I really don't think I'm out of order though to advise her not to and that he won't change.. or am I?