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Is a stiletto heel fetish normal?

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Lipstickgal · 20/05/2011 14:55

My husband loves heels - they do something for him. He now wants me to wear them in the bedroom. Has anyone else come across this? None of my previous lovers had this particular kink and I was wondering how common it is?

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HellonHeels · 20/05/2011 15:08

I think it's not unusual.

How do you feel about it?

Lipstickgal · 20/05/2011 15:13

Weeeelll I am normally a Birkenstocks fan so not a natural inclination of mine...however I am open to it but practically it seems a bit, er, awkward....

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stickytoffeepud · 20/05/2011 15:39

its pretty common i think

Zanette · 20/05/2011 15:52

My DP likes high heels. Maybe part of it is that you are a Birkenstocks fan!

TobyLerone · 20/05/2011 15:59

It barely registers as a 'kink', IMO.

It's really very mild. Normal. Stilettoes are pretty, and they make womens' legs look amazing.

That said, though, nobody should do anything sexual with which they are uncomfortable. So if it makes you uncomfortable enough that you wouldn't even want to try it, OP, then don't.

AnyF · 20/05/2011 15:59

it's quite vanilla, really I think

give it a go, why not ?

unless he is trying to bully you into it, and you don't want to do it...in which case tell him to stick those heels where the sun don't shine

GrownUpNow · 20/05/2011 16:13

What does he want you to do while wearing them, this is the question? Is he just into the look, or do you think he'll progress onto worship or being a human doormat/trample? Would you be comfortable with his fetish or not?

squeakytoy · 20/05/2011 16:33

Its a very common fantasy for most blokes.. just be careful not to poke him in the eye!

jesuswhatnext · 20/05/2011 16:36

mind your sheets! Grin you dont want to rip a hole!

DontHassleTheBOF · 20/05/2011 16:37

It's not a fetish at all, if he is perfectly capable of arousal without it. It is just something he likes. So if you feel like wearing them sometimes, go ahead. I would only worry if he didn't want sex unless the shoes were involved.

squeakytoy · 20/05/2011 17:14

Not a good idea if you are on an air bed either.....

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BranchingOut · 20/05/2011 17:16

or a water bed!

Lipstickgal · 20/05/2011 17:53

Thanks for the responses. I will indulge him forthwith!

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