i don't know how to link to my last post, but basically big marital problems which mean I've had an EA which ended messily and thanks to the advice on here I decided to see a counsellor :)
Made the mistake at the weekend of telling my DH. We've been getting on better so I thought I would tell him. He thinks it is a totally ridiculous waste of money. People will think I'm a nutter if they find out so he doesn't want me to tell anyone. Or know anything about it. He just kept going on how unnecessary it was, that there's nothing wrong with our marriage :( And it has been better but it won't last I know.
I know he isn't going to let it go and truthfully we aren't exactly flush with cash at the moment but my head hurts trying to keep so much hidden away in it.