Help
I have an ongoing battle with DH over childcare.
His view is that he CAN'T be responsible for the children due to his work commitments. I see it that he won't.
He works full time, involving a lot of driving. I work part-time, freelance, mostly from home.
I gave up my employed position because I wanted to be around more. I wanted to do the school run etc. Most of the time it works fine. DH has breakfast with them while I get ready, then he gets ready and leaves while I take them to school.
However SOMETIMES I have work commitments which means it would really help if he could do the school run, if I have a meeting etc. But he won't. Even when he's working from home 
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This morning I had to catch a train and he wouldn't even help me put the kids in the car because he was 'already at work'
This evening I am late back and my sister has to pick them up from the childminder as 'he can't guarantee he'll be back'
Whenever we talk about it it turns into a row.
Help.