do you believe in soulmates and are you with yours?

[edwardsbella]

do you think that there is only one man that your are meant to be with?
have you met him? are you married to him? were you with him and why arent you still together ?

of course you dont have to find someone else if thats what suits you

but you also dont have to lay a guilt trip on your spouse saying ooooooh i dont want you to find someone else when i kick the bucket

No, no, no and no

But I am still very happy

I think it's a matter of pure luck and timing

I love my own company and am never bored.

I don't know if I would have got involved with someone new after H died; I got together with DP because I knew him so well and had always thought I really wanted to be with him but neither of us was in the right place at the right time.

Don't forget that there are quite a few people who simply have no interest in long term couple partnerships anyway. I have never married or lived with a partner and I think my life is probably better for the fact.