Tricky situation with new guy. Tell me the honest truth!

[Celibin]

I met G at a party (Sunday lunch /afternoon ) We left together as everyone else leaving . He wanted to go back to his flat (tube ride away) but I said I would prefer to go to a cafe etc for a coffee . Passed many coffee houses but G not interested. We arrived athis place. " I have v expensive curtains, you know" he said . Making out he was a good catch? Yes, he was in prime Central London location. I still did not think idea of going back to his pad any good.Then a kind of sexual encounter took place on his sofa- this is so embarrassing-he just could not do it! I admit I did not really want to get so intimate with him at this stage and the whole thing just put me off him. In addition, I was always inundated with other offers of sexual things with men so no big deal really. I woke up on other side of bed with him asleep on other side so no contact with him. He then tried to made another date with me involving his travelling quite a distance to see me but I had gone off him.

There is nothing at all wrong with having sex with a man you've just met, having sex with two men in a week or indeed having sex with four men at the same time. I've done all of these things and enjoyed them.
However, you don't have to have sex with a man just because he asks you to. OP you sound confused and unhappy. what is it you are really looking for?

Not a very helpful post from me I know but this thread is making me laugh and is a welcome distraction from my uni work!!

In what way is this a "tricky situation"?

Thank you, that is very kind of you Celibin. We need to laugh at others quadrivia and misfortunes now and then.

I hope you have learnt something about yourself and this man, based on this rather absurd sounding experience.

Peculiar post, although it had a good title so I looked. Don't really understand why the situation is tricky but I would agree that some of the responses are absurdly 1950's housewifeish - as though this is the first person in the entire world to have had a few drunken fumbles when they would really have preferred to have a cup of coffee. The guy does sound like a prat but some of the responses are so viciously vindictive. For instance, the comment 'you sound so far up your own arse that you are actually peering out of your mouth' is horrible.
Solidgold - good post.

Four at the same time - wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Would still prefer a cup of coffee though, hehe, been married and monogamous for far too long - must get out more, lol!

I don't agree the responses are 1950s housewifeish. There is nothing wrong with her shagging as many different blokes as she wants in a week just a SGB says.

It is her attitude. She didn't want to but did and then completely tears the bloke apart, ups herself as to how every man is gagging for her and how much better the later sex was (who cares).

If a man came on said he didn't really fancy a girl and didn't really want to but went back to her place and shagged her and boy was she a lousy fuck had nothing going for her and should give up trying to have a man in her life we would rightly think you nasty wanker.

She is just as nasty to this man.

This tale is true: no wind-up. Yes, some posts are quite vicious but in the minority > What struck me was the fact that some people have so much free time they can start looking about for other things I have posted: now that is sad , really sad . Get a life !

This thread sucks. I wish I'd never read it.

I agree Madonna - the OP has posted again for a reaction and I think she should take her own advice - go and get a life! (I wish I hadn't reacted!!!)

Hilairious!