Tricky situation with new guy. Tell me the honest truth!

[Celibin]

I met G at a party (Sunday lunch /afternoon ) We left together as everyone else leaving . He wanted to go back to his flat (tube ride away) but I said I would prefer to go to a cafe etc for a coffee . Passed many coffee houses but G not interested. We arrived athis place. " I have v expensive curtains, you know" he said . Making out he was a good catch? Yes, he was in prime Central London location. I still did not think idea of going back to his pad any good.Then a kind of sexual encounter took place on his sofa- this is so embarrassing-he just could not do it! I admit I did not really want to get so intimate with him at this stage and the whole thing just put me off him. In addition, I was always inundated with other offers of sexual things with men so no big deal really. I woke up on other side of bed with him asleep on other side so no contact with him. He then tried to made another date with me involving his travelling quite a distance to see me but I had gone off him.

1/10 (and only because of the curtains)

You poor, poor thing. He took you to his flat against your will, refused to let you leave and then had a sexual encounter which you clearly didn't want.

Better watch the last 2 weeks of Corrie on Sky+ and see what Maria is doing as you seem to have the identical crisis [bungrin]

What were the Corrie curtains like?

Mutt He may have hae wanted a shag but could not do it. Sad, I guess.

Yes but you're not getting that he may well not have a problem usually. Like Giselle said, you might just not have done it for him, or he might have drunk too much. You can't dismiss a man as a crap shag just because he can't get it up once ffs.

Still want to know about the curtains.

Maybe his idea of pulling is restricted to curtains?

Really Mutt? I think you have to differentiate between people you know and do not know.This is regardless of the gender you are. The guy at the party knew people I knew so he was unlikely to be a mass murderer .With online dating the service provider NOR the client has met the woman/man before so it is an unknown quantity. If you are meeting a complete stranger you need to be careful.Btw a male friend of mine was stung for £ 25,O00 AND THE DATING AGENCY WAS REPUTABLE. I think if anyone meets a complete stranger you need to take care. Sounds like you are one of the hop into bed brigade at any chance types so if this is the case and it is so easy why would you need to go to a 3rd party provider?. I am sure most decent men understand a woman has to be safe and as most men are decent they will never place a woman in that situation. I see desperation at the root of all this.

The guy is unlikely to be a mass murderer because your mates know him?

Think about it

I did have a look at the curtains for about a second. They looked quite good. Drinks cabinet was spectacular though. Cheers for your replies. V good .

It could have been curtains for you

Sarah I honestly do not shag them. I only know they want a s cos they keep trying to date me.

"The guy at the party knew people I knew so he was unlikely to be a mass murderer"

Yes, because mass murderers have to wear a big sign saying 'I am a mass murderer' so no-one ever makes friends with them.

"Sounds like you are one of the hop into bed brigade at any chance types"

Whereas you just hop onto the sofa at any chance?

"I see desperation at the root of all this."

So does everyone else on this thread - why else would you go back to a man's flat for a quick fumble on the sofa even though the best you can say about him is that he is proud of his expensive curtains?

and

Twats x 2 accepted

^Sounds like you are one of the hop into bed brigade at any chance types&

Err it's kind of a cliche but mass murderers often come with the comment 'oh he was such a regular kind of guy. I can't believe it was him, etc, etc'. Everybody has acquaintances, even rapists and murderers.

Yes I think the alcohol element is there.Not drunk but tipsy.Oh well some people would rather have a tipsy someone than no one.Hey! This was not even a s... as it turned out.Bye everyone. You have been great and I have had a great s...x many by lovely guy I met after that xxxxxxx to you all.

There was a young man from C.London
who showed me his expensive curtains
back at his pad
we tried for a shag
but his dick just hung down like the curtains

[ I have nothing better to do, except at 4pm wills and kate romp on telly emoticon ]

hahaha

Brilliant thread.

You are not the hop into bed brigade but you have had great sex many times with a lovely guy you have met AFTER Sunday when you met the last guy and went back to his place and spent the night.

That sounds like hopping into 2 beds in 1 week.

[also waiting for Wills and Kate emoticon]

Yes alcohol thing and twats x 2 fully accepted. Total perception of situation. Superb insight.

Ooooh I've never done one of these before but here you go

You sound like a right pair of pillocks....

yes perhaps if I had paid more attention to curtains I would have been in a better position. Left due to disappointing curtains. Outcome of this:
" We thought you and G had hit it off"says friend . "Well, not so sure" I reply.
" Actually, we have heard it all before. He not had a girlfriend for years"
Lookng for muggings or twat .