I met G at a party (Sunday lunch /afternoon ) We left together as everyone else leaving . He wanted to go back to his flat (tube ride away) but I said I would prefer to go to a cafe etc for a coffee . Passed many coffee houses but G not interested. We arrived athis place. " I have v expensive curtains, you know" he said . Making out he was a good catch? Yes, he was in prime Central London location. I still did not think idea of going back to his pad any good.Then a kind of sexual encounter took place on his sofa- this is so embarrassing-he just could not do it! I admit I did not really want to get so intimate with him at this stage and the whole thing just put me off him. In addition, I was always inundated with other offers of sexual things with men so no big deal really. I woke up on other side of bed with him asleep on other side so no contact with him. He then tried to made another date with me involving his travelling quite a distance to see me but I had gone off him.