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Right - help me figure him out....

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geekgirl78 · 23/04/2011 21:32

OK - was seeing someone lovely before Xmas. We really hit it off, and he is smashing.

He got a new job - and moved up to London - end of relationship. We've stayed in touch, met up a few times, either when I went up to London, or he came down my way. We've also sent each other the odd, silly text message. No snogging tho', just friends Sad. Every time we've met up theres been lots of smiling, conversation etc.

Anyway, I've also just got a new job up in London and am moving in the next couple of days. (It's not the big deal it might sound - home town is not that far away- and I already have friends up there). He knows I'm moving up - but hasn't really said much about it.... Which makes me think that he's not that interested in re-kindling things.

Am I right? Or just over-thinking this? Help - am rubbish when it comes to men!

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Lucyinthepie · 23/04/2011 21:35

If you want the honest truth, to coin a phrase - he's just not that into you. I wouldn't even bother seeing him as a friend to be honest, because you want it to be more than that. You could easily slip into bed again, a situation where he thinks it's something casual, and you'd think it was more serious. Sad, but I think he's not a keeper.

geekgirl78 · 23/04/2011 21:40

Yep - suspected as much....., damn.

Not much chance of us slipping back into bed tho' - we hadn't made it to that stage to begin with.

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cyb · 23/04/2011 21:41

sounds like friend only material

ohgawdherewegoagain · 24/04/2011 08:01

geekgirl - and a whole new world opens up to you very soon so you will have your pick of the elible young men of London - move on and enjoy yourself!

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